{"id":58110,"date":"2023-03-13T15:13:53","date_gmt":"2023-03-13T14:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/conny-schumacher.de\/2023\/03\/13\/small-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down\/"},"modified":"2023-03-13T15:13:53","modified_gmt":"2023-03-13T14:13:53","slug":"small-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/conny-schumacher.de\/en\/2023\/03\/13\/small-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down\/","title":{"rendered":"SMALL but OHO when overwhelmed: TURN THE VOLUME DOWN!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>K<span class=\"break-words\"><span dir=\"ltr\">Do you feel like everything, just EVERYTHING, is getting over your head? Your calendar is bursting at the seams, you don&#8217;t know where your head is anymore, you have 3 training courses at the same time and you still have to give a presentation by tomorrow?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>One of my most effective tips to get out of this spiral is the hint: &#8220;TURN THE VOLUME DOWN&#8221;- and today I want to explain to you what I mean by that:<\/p>\n<p>I see it as a suggestion to think about whether you are BINDING to yourself. If you are &#8211; like many &#8211; the type who always takes on too much and then doesn&#8217;t manage half anyway, then you are ALWAYS panting after it. You take on things that you can&#8217;t do &#8211; and then cancel again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It does something to us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It makes us feel like we can never arrive, that we are never good enough. Not being able to trust us. TO BE UNRELIABLE.<\/p>\n<p>And yes &#8211; that&#8217;s what we are: If we keep canceling appointments and things, our friends and family will eventually think of us as unreliable. This fuels our guilty conscience. We feel more and more uncomfortable &#8211; more and more under pressure, more and more in the feeling that we have to defend ourselves or apologize all the time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>IT&#8217;S A STUPID FEELING!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The fact is that very successful people don&#8217;t lag behind. They also don&#8217;t cancel appointments. They don&#8217;t overdo themselves. You are the master of your planning &#8211; and not the plaything of planning.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What would you like to be?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Then turn down the speed. TURN THE VOLUME DOWN. <strong>Rigorously cross out everything from the calendar that is not absolutely necessary, relaxes you or brings you joy.<\/strong> Delete any newsletters that you won&#8217;t be able to read anyway. Cancel any subscriptions you don&#8217;t use anyway.<\/p>\n<p>BECOME AWARE OF WHAT YOU WANT, WHEN YOU WANT IT &#8211; AND HOW YOU MANAGE YOUR TIME! You will notice how the latent permanent stress subsides when the email inbox is only half as full, there are only &#8220;nice&#8221; appointments in the calendar, and the bad feeling of &#8220;being unreliable&#8221; falls away from you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My recommendation:<\/strong> Use this trick for 30 days. If it works, keep it &#8211; if not, just leave it at that.<\/p>\n<p>If you are looking for support with this &#8211; contact me. I specialize in bringing calm, meaning and clarity into my clients&#8217; lives &#8211; because without it, it is quite impossible to create the life we want.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you enjoy implementing it!<\/p>\n<p>Yours, Conny Schumacher<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/conny-schumacher.de\">Get to know each other for free, book <\/a>#erfolg #goforyourdreams #erfolgsgeheimnis #insidertipp #connyschumacher<\/p>\n<div class=\"shariff shariff-align-flex-start shariff-widget-align-center\"><ul class=\"shariff-buttons theme-default orientation-horizontal buttonsize-medium\"><li class=\"shariff-button facebook shariff-nocustomcolor\" style=\"background-color:#4273c8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fconny-schumacher.de%2Fen%2F2023%2F03%2F13%2Fsmall-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down%2F\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" aria-label=\"Share on Facebook\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noreferrernoopener nofollow\" class=\"shariff-link\" style=\"; background-color:#3b5998; color:#fff\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"shariff-icon\" style=\"\"><svg width=\"32px\" height=\"20px\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 18 32\"><path fill=\"#3b5998\" d=\"M17.1 0.2v4.7h-2.8q-1.5 0-2.1 0.6t-0.5 1.9v3.4h5.2l-0.7 5.3h-4.5v13.6h-5.5v-13.6h-4.5v-5.3h4.5v-3.9q0-3.3 1.9-5.2t5-1.8q2.6 0 4.1 0.2z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"shariff-text\">share<\/span>&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><li class=\"shariff-button linkedin shariff-nocustomcolor\" style=\"background-color:#1488bf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/sharing\/share-offsite\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fconny-schumacher.de%2Fen%2F2023%2F03%2F13%2Fsmall-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down%2F\" title=\"Share on LinkedIn\" aria-label=\"Share on LinkedIn\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noreferrernoopener nofollow\" class=\"shariff-link\" style=\"; background-color:#0077b5; color:#fff\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"shariff-icon\" style=\"\"><svg width=\"32px\" height=\"20px\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 27 32\"><path fill=\"#0077b5\" d=\"M6.2 11.2v17.7h-5.9v-17.7h5.9zM6.6 5.7q0 1.3-0.9 2.2t-2.4 0.9h0q-1.5 0-2.4-0.9t-0.9-2.2 0.9-2.2 2.4-0.9 2.4 0.9 0.9 2.2zM27.4 18.7v10.1h-5.9v-9.5q0-1.9-0.7-2.9t-2.3-1.1q-1.1 0-1.9 0.6t-1.2 1.5q-0.2 0.5-0.2 1.4v9.9h-5.9q0-7.1 0-11.6t0-5.3l0-0.9h5.9v2.6h0q0.4-0.6 0.7-1t1-0.9 1.6-0.8 2-0.3q3 0 4.9 2t1.9 6z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"shariff-text\">share<\/span>&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><li class=\"shariff-button whatsapp shariff-nocustomcolor\" style=\"background-color:#5cbe4a\"><a href=\"https:\/\/api.whatsapp.com\/send?text=https%3A%2F%2Fconny-schumacher.de%2Fen%2F2023%2F03%2F13%2Fsmall-but-oho-when-overwhelmed-turn-the-volume-down%2F%20SMALL%20but%20OHO%20when%20overwhelmed%3A%20TURN%20THE%20VOLUME%20DOWN%21\" title=\"Share on Whatsapp\" aria-label=\"Share on Whatsapp\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noreferrernoopener nofollow\" class=\"shariff-link\" style=\"; background-color:#34af23; color:#fff\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"shariff-icon\" style=\"\"><svg width=\"32px\" height=\"20px\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 32 32\"><path fill=\"#34af23\" d=\"M17.6 17.4q0.2 0 1.7 0.8t1.6 0.9q0 0.1 0 0.3 0 0.6-0.3 1.4-0.3 0.7-1.3 1.2t-1.8 0.5q-1 0-3.4-1.1-1.7-0.8-3-2.1t-2.6-3.3q-1.3-1.9-1.3-3.5v-0.1q0.1-1.6 1.3-2.8 0.4-0.4 0.9-0.4 0.1 0 0.3 0t0.3 0q0.3 0 0.5 0.1t0.3 0.5q0.1 0.4 0.6 1.6t0.4 1.3q0 0.4-0.6 1t-0.6 0.8q0 0.1 0.1 0.3 0.6 1.3 1.8 2.4 1 0.9 2.7 1.8 0.2 0.1 0.4 0.1 0.3 0 1-0.9t0.9-0.9zM14 26.9q2.3 0 4.3-0.9t3.6-2.4 2.4-3.6 0.9-4.3-0.9-4.3-2.4-3.6-3.6-2.4-4.3-0.9-4.3 0.9-3.6 2.4-2.4 3.6-0.9 4.3q0 3.6 2.1 6.6l-1.4 4.2 4.3-1.4q2.8 1.9 6.2 1.9zM14 2.2q2.7 0 5.2 1.1t4.3 2.9 2.9 4.3 1.1 5.2-1.1 5.2-2.9 4.3-4.3 2.9-5.2 1.1q-3.5 0-6.5-1.7l-7.4 2.4 2.4-7.2q-1.9-3.2-1.9-6.9 0-2.7 1.1-5.2t2.9-4.3 4.3-2.9 5.2-1.1z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"shariff-text\">share<\/span>&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>KDo you feel like everything, just EVERYTHING, is getting over your head? 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